Mark Constance on Film and Family

Mark ConstanceAs you work in the film business you’re often taken away from your family for great lengths of time. When you have the opportunity to not only work with a group of filmmakers that you consider family but to also have your family involved in a project it is quite interesting!

When we first began the process of our film CROOKED LANE there were time obstacles for me to be involved during principal photography. I told Chase I could produce that part of the film in absentia and that by bringing in Greg Smith to produce he would have an extension of me. Smitty and I have worked together for 15 years. We’re as close as most brothers and fight like it sometime (come on, he’s a Yankees fan) !!! Chase also suggested to my wife Bethany that she should co-produce the film. She resisted at first from what I believe was fear of the unknown. Bethany has had a long career in the film business but she had never ventured into the production side. Once she agreed I was duly excited. We’ve always talked about our various projects and deals but this would be the first time we would work together.

Now that was the easy part of working with the family……

When we began the casting process Chase and Bethany were going to work closely together with our Casting Director, John Campanello. Chase began by asking Bethany if she had any dark haired 9 year olds on her roster of actors. Immediately she looked at Chase quizzically and said, “Well yes, I gave birth to one”. That 9 year old was our daughter Eliya-Quaye! So the casting began moving forward enough so that Chase asked me if I was ok with Eliya-Quaye playing the part of Bailey. My response as always was “to do what’s best for the film and if she’s is best then I’m all for it” and “don’t do it for Bethany or I”.

Eliya-Quaye eventually was cast as Bailey. As much as Mommy was involved she really did it all on her own. Bethany and I were very proud of her although we knew the hardest part was yet to come!

As I’ve said, I was producing in absentia for most of principal photography so…

Jumping ahead I had these crazy thoughts. Not only was I the executive producer of the film, I was the father of one of the three young girls who were cast in the film. The first time I saw the edit of the film I was watching as a dad and couldn’t believe the emotion I felt in watching Eliya-Quaye. That was my little one up there on the monitors!!! I hope you’ll like what she’s done on screen!

There is the adage about ‘don’t blink because your kids will be adults’ and is so true. I spent a lot of Eliya-Quaye’s(and our 6 year old son Caleb’s) early life on the road. At times, the family packed it up and came to Nashville, Miami, Los Angeles or wherever the job took me. As the kids grew to begin school the idea of leaving was something I didn’t want to think about. The idea that we would one day work together was something I never thought would happen either!! Try it sometime, it might be the thrill of a lifetime!

Thanks,

Mark Constance

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  • http://uptownuncorked.com geechee_girl

    I love how you captured the family feeling that was so evident on set. :)

  • http://twitter.com/jdawgc jdawgc

    It sounds like it was a great project to be a part of. The fact that you got to work with your family on it sounds like it made things more fun. Really looking forward to the release to see it all come together.

  • seanpaune

    What a lovely look inside the film production process. I think far too many people see film production as one long party where “Hollywood types” just party the entire time and a film just kind of happens at the end of it. No one thinks about the long days, the time away from loved ones and the potential toll it takes on the families.

    Thank you for sharing such an intimate little family moment!

  • cmajor

    How lucky you are to be working with your wife and daughter on this film. I think its so important to find projects that you can share with your children that you are passionate about. I am sure this will not be the last time that your daughter and you work on a film together.

    I can't wait to see the film!

  • http://twitter.com/schneidermike schneidermike

    One minute they're babies, the next minute they're in your film. Great stuff. Really special experience to share with your daughter.

  • Mark Constance

    Grazie!
    Gracias!
    Thank You
    :>)))

  • Mark Constance

    As always with this group of filmmakers(Tracey, Chase, Smitty, Shawn, etc…) it is always a great experience. Having Bethany and Eliya-Quaye was stressful but knowing the jobs that they did makes it well worth it.

    The film really looks great! When I saw the color corrected and sound mixed version my jaw hit the floor!!!

    Thanks for checking in!

  • Mark Constance

    Thank you for sharing your thoughts with me!

    I was speechless(that's really hard for me) seeing my daughter in the film.

    The business can definitely take it's toll on you both physically and emotionally. The toll it takes on the family can easily break that dynamic apart. I spent many years before I had a family living that high life but it certainly changes when you make those changes in your life.

  • Mark Constance

    It was a really, really interesting time for us. Our kids are both passionate about everything they do(kinda like their mom and dad!!!). The moment Eliya-Quaye asked Bethany and I if she could take acting classes we gasped but she loves it so as parents we will be her(and Caleb)support for what they love.

    Yea, cmajor, I may have a script she might have a small role in!!!

    See you at the theater soon!

  • Mark Constance

    Oh man, so true! I look at the kids and wonder how they got to be 6 and 9 already!!!!

    Thank you for checking in!

  • adriennemontezinos

    Eliya-Quaye did a wonderful job. It was so great working with your family, Mark! You're so right, the whole group involved in the making of the film is like a family, one I'm thrilled to be part of.

  • Terri Willard

    Hi Mark
    We went to high school together and here I am reading the Portsmouth Herald and seeing your
    film being voted Film of the year in NH. Great job!! I remember your Dad from Osco in Rochester
    he would be really proud of you today! You have an amazing career and family! Best of luck to
    you! Keep up the good work glad to see your back in NH. Your were here visiting your family
    from California when your Dad brought you into Osco to say hi–and he always talked about you
    and your career! Take care, Terri (last name is my married name)

  • http://a713production.com/ Mark Constance

    Hi Terri,
    Sorry for taking so long to respond but I wanted to make sure and THANK YOU for checking in. I remember all those great times with my dad. I wish he could see the fruits of our labors(after being there for a lot of treading water!!!) but I hope he's checking in on things from his sitting chair in the sky!!!Please keep checking in on the site and hopefully we'll have more good “stuff” going on with CROOKED LANE!!!
    Thanks,
    Mark

  • almorancy

    Mark, Nice work, You should be proud of your children. I'm happy for you. I think back to the day's of York Beach and have nothing but good thoughts.

    God bless my friend.

    Al Morancy

  • mariannebornkessel

    Mark, I didn't realize all this until now. It's been awhile since we saw you on Mall Cop. What an opportunity this was for your family. Give hugs to Bethany and the kids and wish you guys a very Happy New Year in 2010. Hope to see you soon!!!

  • mariannebornkessel

    Mark, I didn't realize all this until now. It's been awhile since we saw you on Mall Cop. What an opportunity this was for your family. Give hugs to Bethany and the kids and wish you guys a very Happy New Year in 2010. Hope to see you soon!!!

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